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Your mindset is a set of beliefs that shape how you make sense of the world and yourself. It influences how you think, feel, and behave in any given situation. It means that what you believe about yourself impacts your success or failure.

Mindsets can influence how people behave in a wide range of situations in life. For example, as people encounter different situations, their mind triggers a specific mindset that then directly impacts their behaviour in that situation.

Mindset is more than just a fleeting thought or belief; it’s the lens through which we view the world. It’s the filter that colors our experiences and determines our responses to challenges and opportunities.

It’s the difference between seeing an obstacle as an impenetrable wall or a stepping stone on the path to growth.

There are so many people with this one consuming goal of proving themselves in the classroom, in their careers, and in their relationships.

Every situation calls for a confirmation of their intelligence, personality, or character.

Every situation is evaluated: Will I succeed or fail? Will I look smart or dumb? Will I be accepted or rejected? Will I feel like a winner or a loser?

How do we unfix this fixed mindset?

At the heart of understanding mindset is the concept of neuroplasticity—the brain’s remarkable capacity to change and adapt in response to experiences, thoughts, and learning. This phenomenon challenges the notion that our abilities and intelligence are fixed from birth.

Neuroplasticity reveals that our brains are highly adaptable, constantly forming new neural connections and pathways in response to learning and experiences.

Mindset plays a pivotal role in determining the thought patterns that activate and strengthen specific neural pathways. A growth mindset, for instance, encourages the brain to seek opportunities for learning and improvement.

A growth mindset aligns with the brain’s natural inclination for learning and adaptability. When individuals believe in their capacity to grow and improve, their brains are more receptive to new knowledge and skills.

Incorporating newness in your daily habits and routines can literally change your brain structure.

We need to always be looking for a way to become one percent better daily.

Tasks:

Sit quietly for 5-10mins- in silence, listen to meditation music, or affirmations, or weightless by marconi union, researched to reduce anxiety levels by 65% (listen in headphones) or solfeggio frequencies.

Before leaving the house, say out loud to yourself, ‘today is going to be a good day’ or any other affirmations that set the intention for your day

Move your body for 30+minutes

Do the hardest task of your morning/ day/ shift first if possible to avoid procrastination - choose the priority for the day

Do not complain about anything for the whole day- nothing, catch yourself before you complain… hold yourself to a higher standard

Bring newness to your day each day - new coffee shop, new direction/route to work, talk to a new group of people, new class at gym, WEAR COLOUR, try different foods/drinks, whatever this looks like for you,

Only positive self talk - no self deprecating language, and catch other people from doing it too in your presence- words are spells

Listen to a TED talk- or a podcast- on a completely random topic- listen to learn

Compliment at least one person everyday - make it genuine

Brain dump before bed in journal - self reflect on the day. How could you have done things different? How did you show up and what was your attitude like? What happened that made it change?

Track your daily wins in your journal- however small. Impress yourself. 

FIND THE GLIMMERS!!! Instead of triggers- what small things brought you joy today? Write them down to track commonalities